We spend so much time thinking so hard, to find the right words to say to someone, that by the time we find them it's too late. When really the right words were the ones we think are wrong.
When put in the situation when you have to tell someone something that comes from the heart. Those words actually come from your heart. It's the first thing that pops into your head when the question is asked. It's not so much the words that we need to find when saying it, because we already know the answer. It's finding the courage to speak from your heart. Most of us can think of exactly what to say, but when we open our mouths, it's like we've become mute. My personal suggestion, write it down. Anything you want to say you can write down. It's a lot easier than looking that person in eyes and accidentally saying the wrong thing, or saying it in a fashion that they take the wrong way. When you write how you feel down, you have the ability to change anything you want. To make it say exactly how you want to say it. You can write it, then delete it. And when you think it's exactly the way you want it remember it or give it to the person you wrote it for.
The right words are usually the words you left unsaid.
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