Why Are Relationships So Difficult?

   Well a relationship is when two people come together as one. A lot of people, especially in the beginning, two people who are supposed to be as one, still think of themselves as an individual. This happens most often with younger couples. They think, "oh hey, I'm on my own, I don't have to ask for permission, I can do what I want." Well sorry to bust your bubble, but it's not so much of having to ask for permission, but you do have to mention where you are going. That way your S.O. knows where you are in case something happens. Just like when you lived at home with your parents. It's also a good idea, as far as them trusting you they know that you are telling the truth about where you are going, but they also know that they can trust you enough to know nothing is going to happen. 

   Another thing is, when it comes to visiting your family. In some relationships, the couples find themselves visiting one family more than the other. Well compromising is always a good thing when it comes to this, along with other things. Pick one day out of each week that you go see your family and pick one day that you go see their family. It's only fair right... You can't do more for yourself than you do for the other, and you cant let the other do more for their self than they do for you. It has to be EQUAL. 

   Also, don't ever tell your S.O. that they can not do something. They picked you to be their significant other because you are their best friend. If they have a dream, or a goal, help them reach it. Don't ever tell them that they can't do something. If they want to go to school, let them. Not only will it better them, but it will better your relationship in the long run. If they want to lose weight, help them. Because the more you eat junk food in front of them, the harder it is for them to quit eating it. Not only will helping them lose weight better their life and their body, but by you helping, you are bettering yours too. If they want to be a singer, and they suck at singing, help them to take voice lessons. Help your best friend with what ever it is because in some way it will benefit you. Also they can never say that you don't ever help them with anything. 

My point is, compromise, and support are things that make a relationship work. There are other things but we will come to those on a later date, or else I wouldn't have anything to write about!