Love is a word that everybody just throws around, when really they just have very strong feelings for that person. Love is not a game and we shouldn't take it for granted. How do you know when your in love? Well honestly, I can't tell you. It's a feeling you get when you think about that special someone, it's the way you smile everytime you look at them or hear their voice. Love is feeling your heart beat faster than a NASCAR race when they text or call you. Honestly love is having that feeling that you know you can't live without that person and you know you're going to grow old and wrinkly together.
Just because someone makes you feel happy a lot, or they do nice things for you, doesn't quite mean you are in love. It takes quite a while to know you in REAL love. You don't fall in love within a few days or weeks. When you say "I love you" after a short period of time, I feel like you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. Although that's why I'm here, to prevent that as much as possible for you. You have to know this person pretty much better than you know yourself. You have to be sure that you love EVERYTHING about that person even the stuff that gets in your last nerve, just because it's a part of who they are.
So...MY CHALLENGE TO YOU: The next person you talk to that makes you more than happy, you can't tell them you love them for at least a month.
Don't get me wrong I believe in love at first sight too, but even then you still have to get to know each other. Right?
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