Have you ever looked at a couple and said, "That guy/girl is way to pretty for their partner!"? Well 9 times out of 10 they are the happy couple. The reason being, when you find someone that has a WONDERFUL personality, and you love to be around them, but yet they are not so attractive, that personality makes them attractive to you. The "not-so-attractive" people are the ones who are faithful. They are the ones who know that true love only comes once, and they are not going to take it for granted.
Guys sit here and say, all day long, that they wish they could find a good girl, and girls say they wish they could find a guy that doesn't just want sex. To be honest, you have your standards way too high. Guys who say this are the guys that look for the girls that look like superstars. Well, not all of them, but most of those girls know they could have any guy they want, so they find the smallest thing to throw you under the bus. They are also probably talking to 15 other guys, and those guys are probably telling her that she is beautiful, and sweet, and they can treat her right. Those girls are naive. Girls what a guy who looks AND act like they do in movies. Well ladies, truth be told, those guys are only in the movies. Girls are way too picky. They guys that go to the gym 3 times a day, (yes, I said "a day") are the ones that know they look good. They are the ones who just want to have a good time, because they know that every girl wants them.
Like I said before, you are not truly happy until you marry your best friend. Your "soulmate". Don't look for your the person you wanna spend your life with. Look for the person you can talk to about anything and you know that they care and you know they are listening. That is the person who will truly make you happy. You can't expect to meet someone new and you like them for a week and you think you should get married. Sorry to break some hearts, but it doesn't work that way. You really have to be friends first. Find someone who is not a 10, find someone who has imperfections, and they have a sense of humor, they like nerdy video games, they don't walk around with their shirts off to impress every girl in the state. Find a girl who wears glasses, or is wearing her pajamas at Wal-Mart or the movie theater. Or even who has a little meat on their bones. Things happen for a reason, and if you haven't found your Mr./Mrs. right, then you are obviously looking in the wrong direction.
MY CHALLENGE TO YOU: Find someone to be your best friend, don't make any moves, but really get to know that person almost better than you know yourself. Lower your standards a little, it won't kill you.
I promise that the right person is out there for you, you just have to learn how to give people a chance.
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