The Hardest Part...

   I'm sure many of you have been in love, or are in love, and nothing went right. There were all the arguments, and the silent treatments, and the "I hate you"'s...or you just became two separate people. Well from experience, I know what it's like to lose someone that you love. To lose the one thing that you saw everyday, the one person you counted on to ALWAYS be there. And it's not easy, not at all. But you have to be strong. I know, everyone is telling you the same thing. But I'm sure not one of those people are going to tell you how to do it. I will try...

   First thing first, I want you to take all the pictures of you and that person and pick out ONE. Only one. That one, you can keep, BUT I want you to put it in a box or a drawer or somewhere you won't see it all the time. The rest of them, I want you to go outside, with a lighter and burn them. You can never get rid all your memories of someone or something special in your life. Which is why I said to keep one. This includes anything that has this persons name, or something they gave you, any journals....burn it all. No matter what you need that one picture to remind you of the good times you had with that person, but more importantly to remind you of the kind of person you don't need to be with. Remind yourself when it does just pop up out of nowhere, of the things that this person put you through, and remind yourself that you deserve better than that. You deserve someone who is going to treat you like a Queen/King. 

   Second, I want you to pick a song that makes you mad at that person. Turn it on and put it on repeat. You  do not need to feel sorry for yourself. 

   Last, You need to delete them from facebook, myspace, my yearbook, any connection you have with that person needs to get deleted. And don't look back

The reason I made this post, is because I always talk about what people want in another person, but never what to do when things go wrong. I know someone out there needs some advice. I did, and there was no one there to help me, other than saying "you don't need him" or "just get over it already". 

The song that I listen to is Bittersweet Memories by Bullet for my Valentine. It is a rock song but a lot of times rock is the music that gives you the attitude you need. This song helped me because of the lyrics. They say EXACTLY what I should have done a long time ago. I'm telling you so that you don't waste anymore time than you need. 

"Rip my pictures from the wall, 

Tear them down and burn them all, 

Light the fire and walk away,

(There's nothing left to say)

Take the ashes from the floor,

Bury them to just make sure,

That nothing more is left of me,

Just Bittersweet Memories."