Communication is at the top of the list of reasons why couples break up. A lot of couples still have their guards up as individuals. When you have a relationship with someone, that one person should ALWAYS be the one who can tear that guard down with no problems. You have to be able to talk to the person you are with, so that you don't become complete strangers to one another. You lose sight of what's going on in the other ones world, and you start to ask yourself question. And doubtful questions are never a good thing. Learn to speak to one another, and if you are the type who, like myself, usually can't find the words to say, write what your are thinking down. Write your S.O. a letter and the both of you can share your thoughts.
MY CHALLENGE TO YOU: Pick one day out of the week that you and your significant other sit down and talk. Whether it be about work, school, family, friends, or even what you are planning to cook for dinner the next day. At least you are talking. Make it a habit to sit and talk, you can even make a date out of it. Go out to eat, or have a picnic, or sit on the tailgate and look at the stars. Find something to do to better your relationship, find someway to let each other know what is going on in your life, and find out what is going on in theirs.
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