Being Comfortable with Yourself

   An important part of a healthy relationship is to be comfortable with who you are as an individual. Girls, you have to love who you are before you can love someone else. 9 out of 10 guys like a thicker woman. So don't be ashamed to have meat on your bones, and wear a fitted shirt or some jeans that compliment your butt. You have to be confident in yourself. Guys like that. They like knowing that you are not afraid to wear anything you want, they like knowing that you are not gonna ask "Does this make me look fat?". They like knowing you are comfortable, walking out of the house in your pajamas, with no make-up on, your hair in a mess, and that you don't care what anyone thinks. To them, that's pretty hot! But at the same time, a guy wants a girl to take care of themselves. They want you to be healthy, so also don't be afraid to hit the gym. Or drink a bottle of water. Don't be scared to go for a jog. In fact, make him go with you. He would love to know that you are trying to stay healthy for him. More for you but for him as well.

   Guys, same goes for you. Be confident with yourself too. Don't send a picture to a girl and ask her if she likes it. You should know she's going to love it because it's a picture of you! A girl wants a guy who is confident in him, because then she knows that you are not just settling for her because you don't think you are good enough for someone "better". When you love yourself she knows that you are confident it her. Girls think Confidence is the sexiest thing a guy can wear.

   Now when I say to be confident, I do NOT mean to be conceited. Girls want a guy who is confident, not a guy who is so conceited that he thinks he can have any girl he wants. And girls, guys don't want a girl who loves their self more than anything else. He wants to know that somewhere in that big loving heart there is enough love for him to stay around.

  Anyways, my point is... you have to be comfortable with your self before you can be comfortable with someone else.

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