Arguments

   Arguments are what helps keep a relationship healthy and strong. Because even though you are arguing, you are talking to one another. When you argue, you tell how you actually feel, you are not hiding any feelings that you don't want the other one to know. Knowing that you can yell at each other, throw things, call each other names, and let off all your steam, and then still going to bed, giving the other a kiss, and saying good night, that's real love. That is a strong relationship. You know that no matter what, you can say the meanest thing in the world, and your S.O. will forgive you, and still love you. 

   Guys, sometimes a girl is scared to argue with you, because she doesn't want you to leave. So make sure that you always reassure her that you are never going anywhere, that you are hers, and you just want to know what she is really thinking. 

   Girls, sometimes he won't argue with you and he will just make a smart-allic remark, because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. So your job is to make sure that no matter what he says you keep your head up and stay strong. If he says something that really does hurt your feelings, remember, it's only out of anger and he doesn't really mean it. Let him know that you can take anything that he throws your way.

   I know that everyone of you is saying "I hate arguing." and "That is what I try to avoid". But the truth is, is that you NEED to argue, you need to let your anger out, especially if it's about your S.O. That's how they know that you are not going anywhere. That is how they know that you are telling them the truth, that you are not hiding anything and that you are worth keeping around. Because even though you are screaming and yelling at each other, you are communicating with one another. 

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