Online Dating is something that a lot of people frown upon. My question is how is it any different than the first time you meet someone at the bar, school, or even church. Anyone can change who they are the first time you meet them. It's only when you actually get to know the person and hang out, that you figure out who they really are. Now, I'm not saying that you should trust everyone that you meet online, nor that everyone on there is there for the same thing you are. You just have to know what to do in these situations.
1.) If you are there for really dating, then don't respond to "hey beautiful!" or "wanna hookup?" ... no those people are only there for one thing.
2.) Those of you who are only looking for a one night stand or a friends with benefits type thing. Go to the bar or the club. You would probably have better luck picking up someone who's drunk.
3.) Talk to the person for a few days before giving out your number. Remember that first day they can tell you anything they want. After a few days you might be able to catch them in a lie.
4.) Make sure you see multiple pictures of the person that are not on the website/app.
5.) When and if you decide to meet this person, meet in the most public place you can think of, AND STAY THERE. You want a lot of people around just in case they go psycho crazy. Remember, don't get drunk, and don't let them bring your drinks. either you go get them or your waitor/waitress bring them if you are at a restaurant.
A lot of people really do find their true love, or even their best friend. Like I said you wouldn't change any of this if you met someone anywhere else. So don't judge someone who is on an online dating website. They don't choose your dates, don't choose theirs.
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